Tag Archives: rescuer tendency

Responding Differently 14 Years After

Admittedly, I was feeling fearful — still. It wasn’t only because of the lawyer’s warning. I was frightened because I was in such a remote location, and I didn’t know anyone other than the cottage owner. She, who, as I shared in … Continue reading

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So Thankful As I Said Goodbye….

We said our goodbyes. Tears flowed. From them. None from me. Oh, I wasn’t being cold. I wasn’t being uncaring. I wasn’t angry or resentful, not even vengeful. On the contrary, I felt peaceful. Quite peaceful. I have, after all, … Continue reading

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Breaking Away From Family, Breaking Rescuing Pattern

“How can I deal with my hurtful family members? The number one question that Doreen Virtue received after publishing “Assertiveness for Earth Angels, “ a book that I so love! It proved to be such an invaluable gem. She addresses … Continue reading

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How I Fell In The Rescuer Trap

My rescuer tendency is as much a personal as well as a collective pattern. (Come to think of it, is there any pattern that isn’t both personal and collective, considering we are all interconnected? Hmmmm….) On a collective level, rescuing, … Continue reading

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Crow Medicine — Shapeshifting and Creating New Energies

“Hmmmm….I wonder what I can do to ‘help’ (aka ‘rescue’, ‘fix’) this person, place, or situation which is why I’m being led to them?” That was my mindset. It has been for who knows how long. For most of my … Continue reading

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Compassion And The Danger Of Messianic & Narcissistic Inflation

“Find someone who thinks he is alone and let him know that he is not.” ~ Mother Teresa Central to the teachings of Buddhism is the idea that humans are trapped in samsara, the cycle of birth and death. Suffering … Continue reading

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