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That Was The Plan, That Was My Plan — But What Is The Divine Plan?

I was scheduled to take a trip to Manila. That was the plan. That was my plan. Instead, I’m in the city of Bacolod, unsure for how long. The much-awaited trip to Manila is still up in the air. I … Continue reading

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Releasing Unloving People, Places & Situations

There are times in our life when we hold on to a person, place, thing, relationship or situation long before its purpose has been served. At some level, we know it’s time to let them go, but for various reasons, … Continue reading

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Snake Medicine: Something Needs To Die To Give Birth To Something New

A decade ago, I began my journey of breaking away from my caretaker/rescuer role. I embarked on a path of self-love. It also meant practicing tough love. I relinquished the caregiver role that I played for my brother who was … Continue reading

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Rescuer No More — As My Inquiry Continues & I Move Along My Transition

Is it not enough that I have accomplished my mission and served my purpose of delivering the message of the need for change? Do I need to be part of this resort’s transition — which also includes the owner’s personal … Continue reading

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A Reader’s Comment On My Post About Setting Boundaries Provided Me Precisely Just That — An Opportunity To Set Boundaries!

Have you had those moments when you felt, sensed, and intuited something that you so wanted to tell another — to offer your opinion and advice on something that you might be seeing that the other might not be able … Continue reading

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Setting Boundaries — Ranting. Complaining. Whining.

Over and over again, I encounter my lesson of setting boundaries and asserting myself. It had become even so much more pronounced when I returned to the Philippines, my country of origin, in 2010. It was after a four-year sojourn in … Continue reading

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Being Of Service — To Receivers And Not Takers

Back in my caretaking days, my “Oh-I’m-here-to-save-the-world-so-let-me-help-you-by-taking-care-of-you-and-relieve-you-of-your-burden-and-misery’ (aka, carry your cross for you), I would have immediately jumped at every and any opportunity to help and to ‘serve.’ I would have made myself completely and readily available and made ‘helping’ … Continue reading

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The Gifts Behind the Fear

I’ll be lying if I say that I have transcended my fear-based 3D level of consciousness that nothing now fazes me. Not knowing this woman’s exact psychological condition and state of [mental and emotional] health has certainly caused me to … Continue reading

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From Manipulation & Deception to Authenticity & Integrity

They lure you. Charm you. Enchant you. They sweep you off your feet. They make you believe, find the most subtle way of making you believe that you have similar values and vision. You are whom they’re waiting for all … Continue reading

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Facing My Fear, Saying “No” To My Father, 20 Years Later

I sense a familiarity in the energy, in his personality. The politeness, kindness and generosity he initially shows me truly impresses me. I’m almost swept off my feet! I’m tempted to be swayed by the false, limiting belief that “It’s … Continue reading

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