Category Archives: Relationships

Unexpected Yet Inevitable — In memory of Tita Lola, Part 5

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Tita Lola spent her last several months living with my eldest sister and her family after she had a gallbladder operation. I believe it took place about a year before she passed on. Tita Lola was well…

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Releasing the ties that bind – In memory of Tita Lola, Part 3

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Image source: http://www.visualphotos.com/ On August 2, the day before Tita Lola’s birthday, I was talking to my closest friend, a mother of a six-year-old girl and a six-month-old baby boy.  Such adorable bundles of joy!…

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The Request For Binding Prayers For My Mother Before Her Passing

[Continued from “Healing Prayers For My Mother. Searching For Me. Be Careful What You Pray For.” During the final days of my mother, my cousin mustered the courage to suggest to my eldest sister that, perhaps, my mother needed major … Continue reading

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Holding the Key. Breaking the Curse. Breaking the Cycle.

[Continued from “The Beginning Of A Core Wounding — Being Rejected By My Mother At Birth”] Everything is energy. Our thoughts and emotions contain energies. They are energies. Our bodies are a multi-faceted, multi-level, multi-dimensional energy system. Energy carries a … Continue reading

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When You and Your Mother Can’t Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life by Victoria Secunda

“Determining not to see your mother again is never a snap decision…To divorce your mother is, by any yardstick, an unpopular and, for most people, unimaginable option. Nevertheless, there are some cases in which divorcing your mother is not simply … Continue reading

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Why I Don’t Celebrate Mother’s Day (Or Other Similar Occasions)

Last year, when I was still a member of the committees assisting the Board of Directors of our building, I came up with the idea of giving out roses to the mother-residents of our building on Mother’s Day. All women, … Continue reading

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Violation Of My Right To Privacy. Self-Assertion. Healing Father & Mother Wounds.

“I know she has cancer,” remarked the Executive Director. “Of what?” Another attendee inquired to which she replied, “Breast.” The conversation took place after the Board Chairman announced my resignation from the committees due to “health reason.” I already indicated … Continue reading

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Closing Of A Chapter. Healing Mother Wound. Healing Through Breast Cancer.

It was only a couple of months since the breast cancer diagnosis and partial mastectomy in June 2018 when I found myself attending a disgruntled homeowners’ meeting. What am I doing here? Why am I here? Is this something that … Continue reading

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Proper Apology & Overcoming My Fear Of Mommy

The only way that trust may be restored and broken relationships may be mended is through a proper apology which constitutes (1) admission and acknowledgment of the mistake including specifying what the error is, and (2) an assurance and commitment … Continue reading

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Trust — My Lifelong Lesson Has Shown Up For the Nth Time. Trust Must Be Earned, Not Readily Given

Upon learning of my health condition and that I live alone and am estranged from family, the wife of a couple-neighbor whom I met a few months ago, offered not long after I met them for me to feel free … Continue reading

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