Why Not BOTH The Water & The Mountain?

There’s always the calm before and after the storm. Image Source: https://pixabay.com/

Thankfully, I was recharged at my year-end retreat before coming ‘back to reality.’

It became even so much clearer to me why my stay was extended.

The Universe was prepping me big time!!!

Upon my return, what welcomed me was one distressing episode after another!

I still haven’t quite fully recovered from one episode. Another is still ongoing even as I’m writing this. I suspect it will go on for an extended time, longer than I prefer.

The incidents involved a friend, family, and my living situation with all three unfolding within an hour of my arrival!!!

Three. Within. An. Hour.


(I still don’t subscribe to the belief, though, that ‘everything comes in three’s.’ Maybe some. But not all. 😉 )

These stressful incidents seemed to have pretty much wiped out the recharging that I did at my retreat. It was so exhausting at all levels!

I cannot imagine how I’d have responded and how so much more distraught I would have been had I not reconnected with Mother Nature. It definitely would have been so much worse!!!

Finding the Gifts

I sure was tormented by these incidents, but they gifted me with the opportunities to master my lessons on:

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    Discerning who I can truly consider to be a ‘friend,’ to whom do I give my full trust, and to immediately cut ties when they’ve taken advantage of and abused my kindness and generosity and not showing any signs of remorse,

  • Extending compassion to those who are unable (refuse?) to respect and honor me, my choices, and my boundaries, and taking my healing and recovery from my family estrangement situation to a deeper level, and
  • Asserting myself and my rights including demand for the eviction of the errant neighbor (a first for me and it was so empowering!) who had repeatedly failed to comply with the no-smoking policy. Anyone with allergic rhinitis and asthma abhors living next to a smoker, especially one who again and again violates the no-smoking policy! (This is a different neighbor, though, from the one who created a scene and caused quite a stir in our complex on Christmas Eve.) Couple this with the incompetence of the residential complex admin staff and laid-back bordering uncaring attitude and culture that the region is known for, one is sure to go through the roof!!!

For the nth time, this isn’t home.

On my ‘Not So Quiet Christmas Eve’ post, I wrote that “Long before this incident, I already decided that this place isn’t ‘home’ for me. I have started preparing for and researching on my next adventure and exploration.”

It wasn’t so much that the distressing living situation-related episode strengthened my decision that this isn’t home.

It was more a reminder, reiterating to me to not go back to a place, this place — both the residential complex and the city where it’s situated — knowing fully well that I’m not supported, nurtured, and nourished in it. Quite the opposite, in fact.

Not going back to a place that I already know isn’t the place for me is a lesson that I already learned not too long ago — only over a year ago, in fact, — in a most painful, tragic, and traumatic way! (Why can’t life lessons be learned the easier way, eh?!?!? 😉 Or is it just me?🌞)

Without anything definite at this point, where I’m currently residing will continue to be ‘home.’  Again, no rushed, knee-jerk decisions and reactions! Already learned that, too!

What is definite at this point — and what the Universe is making sure that I truly and fully get — is when I close my door on where I’m at, I must keep the door closed and locked! Double-locked and padlocked! No second-guessing. No reconsidering. No coming back. This, while keeping myself focused on the gifts that have arisen from the adversities — and being ever-grateful for them!

Why not both?

I was recently sharing with a good-natured neighbor — yeah, there’s a few of them here 😉 — my preference and love for the water. The Ocean over the Mountains.

His reply struck me. It stuck with me.

Why not both?

Indeed, eh? Why not both?

Indeed. Why not BOTH the water and the mountain, eh? Bora-Bora Image Source: https://pixabay.com/

My year-end experience at the mountainside, this conversation with my neighbor, and my subsequent conversation with Lauren Scott of Baydreamer (lovely poetry!!!) on my New Year’s Eve post brought back to my awareness that my dream and ideal home setting has really been having the water/ocean in front of me and the mountains behind.

I would love to be able to swim on some days and hike on others.

The water, the Ocean being “a dynamic force, constantly in transition, reflecting the same in our lives,”¹ is so cleansing and purifying!

The mountains, on the other hand, offer a sense of tranquility like no other. They’re also very grounding and re-balancing. “The mountain reminds us of the spiritual attainment that is ours as we overcome our obstacles.”²

Thanks to my neighbor and to Lauren — Through them, Mother Nature just gave me a nudge to revisit and clarify my preferences as I take the next step in my process of creating my geographical island home on Earth and prepare for my next exploration. For me to make sure that I’m nurtured, nourished, and rejuvenated by both the Ocean and the Mountain!

What is your preferred home setting? Where do you thrive and feel most ‘at home?’ What landscape calls out to your Soul? Is it the City? Forest trees, Gardens, and Plants? Meadows and Valleys? The Mountains? Oceans, Seas, and Rivers?


¹,² Andrews, Ted. Animal-Speak: The Spiritual & Magical Powers of Creatures Great & Small (p. 63, 62).

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About NadineMarie (Aligning With Truth)

I find much joy & fulfillment in sharing my experiences & insights through writing & blogging. I created the site, ALIGNING WITH TRUTH as a virtual center for healing where I share my thoughts & reflections, as well as the tools & resources that are helping me as I move along the path of awakening & coming home to the Self. As I live in joy & align with Truth, I AM shining my Light which is how I contribute to the planetary & humanity ascension. Brightest & Magical Blessings!!! Om Shanti. Namaste...💗💖💜Nadine Marie💜💖💗
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4 Responses to Why Not BOTH The Water & The Mountain?

  1. Visionkeeper says:

    This post made me think of a story a friend once told me. She was traveling in India and went to see the Taj Mahal. Outside in the street close by she encountered a beggar only this beggar wasn’t begging, in fact he was offering her some of his food. She sat to speak with him a while then he said it was time for him to meditate and to please excuse him. As she was leaving she asked him how he could meditate in the middle of a busy street/side walk? He told her she had to have the ability to meditate or find peace anywhere if she were to be truly connected…We spend so much time looking for what we think we need, or where we think we need to be etc. when in fact to be truly at peace we must learn to find that peace wherever we are….Hard to do I’m sure, but there is much truth in his words. Good luck…. VK ❤


    • Hello VK! Yes, I’ve heard other versions of the same story with the message of finding peace within and being at peace despite the external chaos. It sure is commendable when someone can embody that or can be in that state 24/7 which is most definitely not me! 😀 As you said, it certainly isn’t easy, and I know that quite well from experience. It continues to be one of my growth opportunities, one of the skills that I have yet to master.
      It has been most challenging for me where I’m at because this is where, unfortunately, my allergic rhinitis escalated to asthma! 😦 😦 I wrote about that here earlier on. It has been four months, and I haven’t fully recovered. And that is why I primarily don’t see this as ‘home’ for the long haul. I did all I could initially to adapt to this environment and make it my ‘home,’ but the toxicity of the city is just too much and doesn’t work for me. Not that I didn’t know that already…. I cannot compromise my health any further.
      I wrote in this post and previous ones — with more posts on the topic that are still brewing in the cauldron — all the other external chaotic events that have been showing up of late are opportunities that are helping me to be very clear in my decision process of creating my geographical island home on Earth. This, while keeping centered and grounded — and at peace! — so as not to make unwise choices and misguided decisions — again! Oh, I sure have had quite a fair share of those!!! — the misguided choices and being off-centered and so not at peace!!! 🌞 Ahhhh….Life….and the Human Journey…..🌞🌟💞
      Thank you for the visit and your thoughts! Much L💖ve. Om Shanti. Namaste. 🕉 🙏🕉


  2. candidkay says:

    Mountains, meadows, water–all speak to me. I have a theory about the timing and rapidity of your life events. I think the Universe sees that sometimes the whole house of cards needs to be thrown up in the air so it lands as a completely different configuration. You deserve more than just one major change–but several. For the better . . .

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    • Oh, Kristine, thank you so much for your Kind Words and Wisdom! 🌞 💖 You just don’t know how what you wrote quickly uplifted me — something I badly need — and deserve!!! Thank you for gifting me with what I need and at just the right time!! Another reminder to keep on Trusting that the Universe has my back always and will provide me with all that I need and when I need it —- such as your comforting and loving words!! 🌞🌟💞
      I absolutely l💖💖💖💖💖ve your theory, YES!!!
      And I hear you about all elements and landscapes of Nature. Anything but the city for me!🌞
      Thank you for your l💖vely and l💖ving visit, Kristine! 🙏💖 You truly know how to lift someone’s spirits, and I’m most grateful!!! 🙏💖
      Big L💖ve, Big Hug, & the most Magical Blessings to you!!! Om Shanti. Namaste. 🕉 🙏🕉

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